Get Life back into your Relationships

Many people ask us how to keep relationships alive. As humans, craving life and passion is our gift to keep us moving forward! Circulation keeps us moving, and moving keeps us growing and alive. Pumping our relationships with intention while keeping things loose and light is the key. You are never exempt from an amazing outcome for your life! 

If you are feeling the tension of life and the pressures are squeezing the life out of your relationships, don’t be dismayed. There are practical things we can implement to retrieve the flow of “giving and taking” and enjoying love together.  

Like the flow of a garden hose getting “that kink”, we turn the wrong corner and stretch a little too far and now there’s no water! Just like we need water to live, we were created for times of refreshment to rejuvenate our hearts. Hold tight to your intention of loving without conditions, and yet keep your heart light and loose, ready to laugh.  

You were created to live in a state of hope, joy, and peace…these aren’t just emotions but can become your abiding feelings, based on your beliefs about who you are, why you were created, and who your Creator really is.  

Think and ponder of things you can do to retrieve life into your relationships. Here are some ideas: 

  • Release negative opinions of that person

  • Give them free passes to have bad days

  • Take care of your own feelings and moods

  • Don’t put pressure on them

  • Let go of expectations

  • Surprise them with something fun

  • Get to know something new about them

Depth and substance coupled with the lightness of life is the sweet combination that breeds instant life into your relationships. Choose to process life differently and your focus will change…just imagine the positive outcomes! 

Hear more about this topic on Episode 130 of All About Relationships Podcast with Bob and Audrey.

Bob & Audrey Meisner