You don't have to wait.

What if the news is true: You don’t have to wait for anything or anyone to change! You can turn a corner and in the core of you - change your beliefs! 

Your CORE beliefs can serve your life dream, rather than sabotage it!

Choosing empowering beliefs is a very good idea! 

There are three types of waiting: Fun anticipation; Frustrating impatience; and waiting in stillness and rest. In relationships, when we are waiting for someone to change, improve, or grow up, or see the consequences of their actions, there is potential for aggravation and continual disappointment. So what do you do when it’s taking too long?

While waiting for conditions surrounding a person to change, and longing for progress, we can find ourselves saying things like: “He’ll never change. She’ll never understand. He’ll never grow up. She’ll always be mean.” These thoughts and judgments, if left unchecked, turn into debilitating beliefs. Getting on this train of thoughts leads to more and more thoughts, and your heart will now seek to be justified, and before long, there’s a possibility that you’ll get obsessed.

Obsession oversteps our opinions and experiences and limits our way of seeing things. In fact, after a while, that “frustrating trait or behavior” is all you can see. There’s a slim chance that you can enjoy the good things and gifts about that person. Obsession turns into being stuck.  

What have you been waiting for?

1. For my big break

Empowering belief suggestion: I am not desperate for I know God as my source. I am not in lack for He has promised to provide all that I need, I choose and I live in peace for he keeps me as the apple of His eye and hides me under the shadow of His wing, Psalm 17:8.  

2. For a God moment

Empowering belief suggestion: I have access to my friendship with God every moment. I am not a disappointment to God. My God-given imagination serves me and I find courage to walk in harmony with /god and His design for my life.

3.  For my spouse to stop________

Empowering belief suggestion: My spouse (loved one) is not my limitation or problem or obstacle. I choose to focus on the strengths and gifts of my spouse.  

4. For my spouse to start ____________

Empowering belief suggestion: I am at peace knowing he/she is not my source, I am complete and have everything I need in my relationship and friendship with God.

5. For my child/parent to start _____________

Empowering belief suggestion: I trust that God is pursuing him/her with His unfailing love, I easily let go of my agendas for others.

6.  For the perfect opportunity

Empowering belief suggestion: I am surrounded by countless opportunities every day. I swim in the seas of possibilities. I easily hear Goed’s voice for inspiration, and direction and act on them.

7. For financial security

Empowering belief suggestion: I am secure and don’t worry about money. I trust God for wisdom and how to use my time and finances wisely. God is my provider. 

Finding powerful agreements that are personal and customized, in a way that’s accurate and effective for your life, starts with where you have been debilitated. And one of the times we feel debilitated is when we’re waiting for something. It can be discouraging! 

Instead of waiting for: Results. Change. Answers. Miracle. Progress. Why not change what you can today? Implementing these empowering beliefs and meditating on God’s promises will help you turn the corner, change direction, and see a whole new land of joy, peace, and contentment. 

And you don’t have to wait for anyone to come with you! 


Hear more about this on Episode 162 of the “All About Relationships” podcast with Bob and Audrey.

Bob & Audrey Meisner